For her part, Michelle has fueled divorce rumors after she skipped Donald Trump‘s inauguration.

“You know, as a box-checking person who has been checking her whole life, doing the right thing, trying to always be an example, always going high … I think I just told myself, ‘I think I’ve done enough of that,’ and if I haven’t, then I never will,” she previously explained.

“It’ll never be enough. So let me start now,” she said about how she’s starting to put up more boundaries later in life.