The Jealousy-Fueled Reason Why Meghan Markle Is Secretly Locked in New ‘Diva’ Battle With One of Showbiz’s Biggest Prima Donnas 

According to sources, Harry has been reconnecting with Lopez as he looks to broaden his celebrity network in the United States, where he and Meghan, 44, couple have lived since stepping back from royal duties in 2020.

The aim, aides tell us, is to elevate the profile of his charitable work, particularly initiatives linked to veterans.

But a source familiar with the dynamics said the renewed contact has not gone unnoticed at home.

“For Meghan, the situation taps into all her worst insecurities,” they added. “Being placed, even indirectly, alongside someone with Jennifer’s level of global recognition and effortless authority is deeply uncomfortable.”

“Jennifer dominates every space she enters, and that kind of presence naturally invites comparison, which Meghan finds difficult to ignore, regardless of the fact that nothing improper is taking place,” the source noted.

Harry’s motivations are described as competitive.

Another insider said: “Harry is acutely aware of how his brother’s global profile continues to grow, and that comparison weighs heavily on him. Watching William draw in powerful allies and high-profile backers has sharpened his own sense of rivalry, fueling a desire to demonstrate that he can command just as much attention. From Harry’s perspective, Hollywood is where he should hold the advantage, and Jennifer Lopez symbolizes the highest-caliber endorsement he could secure.”

Harry and Meghan were first photographed with Lopez and her then-fiancé, Alex Rodriguez, in Miami in 2020 – a meeting sources tell us left a strong impression.

“Jennifer has a way of captivating nearly everyone she meets,” one insider added. “Harry was no exception – he was immediately aware of her presence, her self-assurance and the sheer force of her celebrity. It left a strong impression from the very first encounter.”

That dynamic has unsettled Meghan. One person close to her and Harry said: “That dinner left a lasting impression on Meghan. At the time, she already felt pushed into the background by Jennifer’s outsized presence, and those unresolved feelings never fully went away. Knowing that Harry is now in private contact with her has brought all of that discomfort rushing back.”

The source added Meghan views Lopez as “the kind of woman who dominates attention without trying.”

But insiders stress: “There is absolutely no suggestion of anything improper,” adding, “The issue has nothing to do with conduct and everything to do with how the situation looks and feels emotionally. It is the perception and the personal reactions that are driving the tension, not any questionable behavior on his part.”

Still, Harry is said to be proceeding cautiously. “Harry is fully aware that this is a delicate subject for Meghan, which is why he has been treading carefully,” one source said. “He is choosing his words and disclosures with intention, conscious that too much detail could easily escalate tensions.”

The practical incentive is clear.

A separate insider said: “Securing Jennifer’s participation at an Invictus Games event would be a major coup. Her presence would instantly elevate the profile of the organization on a global scale, and for Harry, it would feel like a powerful personal achievement.”

Until that happens, the source added, “Harry is keeping expectations low at home, as he “does not want to rock the boat.”

For Meghan, the situation is said to cut deeper than a single friendship.

“Meghan has always been highly attuned to hierarchy, perception and how stories are framed around her,” a source said. “Right now, Jennifer embodies a set of qualities that hit close to the bone – enduring star power, cultural relevance and a commanding ease in Hollywood that Meghan is particularly sensitive to.”

The insider added: “Meghan feels she has been drawn into an unspoken rivalry she never sought out. The comparison exists without her consent, yet she feels unable to escape it, which has become a quiet but persistent source of stress.”

Those close to the duchess and Harry say the issue underscores broader strains as the prince seeks to carve out an independent philanthropic identity in America.

“At the heart of the situation are two competing priorities,” one source added. “Harry is driven by a desire to prove himself and come out on top, while Meghan is focused on managing perception and shaping the story around them.”